Thanks for your post. I am being extremely accepting of whatever my W is doing right now. And you know what, I actually like my W being loose like this. When we first met, she was 21 and she was definitely loose at that time. In fact, as she got older she has tended to become tight and withdrawn and that just was not her.
This weekend has turned out to be much like any other. W, D3 and I did the usual things Saturday and Sunday.
Saturday was W's birthday. I went against all DB principles (i.e. I took the Wes approach) and bought my W some nice clothes from Ann Taylor for her B'day. She accepted them although I did make it out like it was a gift from D3. So I softened the pursuit element. She hasn't withdrawn from me yet although this morning she was a bit frosty on the phone. I also bought a cake and D3 and I sang B'day song to her. She was quite emotional at that. So, I dont know, kind of a weird couple of days.
More later. Gotta go pick up D3.
UD
The 3 laws of DBing:
1. PMA is critical to DBing.
2. Since drop in WAW's PMA leads to drop in LBS's PMA and vice-versa detachment is critical.
3. Validate to raise WAW's PMA and GAL to raise LBS's.
