Don't know what to make of it. I guess I'd probably not make much of it. I, like you, often assumed my now ex-W wasn't pursuing D, but low and behold she got the papers to me. I guess it's an assumption to think that she's holding up the process of refinancing because she really doesn't want her name off the house. My W was always hesitant to mention anything about the D and other issues surrounding S/D for fear it would upset me. Perhaps she knows you don't want to refinance in just your name so she doesn't want to upset you by appearing to be in a big hurry. Just a thought.
In the end, it's not the years in your life that count. It's the life in your years. Abraham Lincoln
It is hard to fail, but it is worse never to have tried to succeed. Theodore Roosevelt
