Some of you may recall the situation regarding the refinancing of the house that cam up a couple weeks ago. Recall that my WAW had prompted me to refinance the house in my name (i.e. she assumed that I would take her off the mortgage) and I like an idiot went to the bank and discussed refinancing but with both our names on. If you recall sometime last week (Wednesday) I asked her for our W2's from last year (she has both of them) and her paystub so I could refinance. At that point she said "I thought you were going to refinance in your name" and I had a "duh" moment realizing what she had meant. A couple days passed and the W2 did not materialize. So last Friday I sent her an email saying I would like MY W2 at least so I can refinance in MY name, i.e. I would take her off the mortgage (giving her what she wants). She said "oh, sure, it's on my desk at home and I will give it to you tomorrow (saturday)". Well, no W2 yet. We have seen each other several times already and she has not given me the W2 yet. What gives?
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The 3 laws of DBing:
1. PMA is critical to DBing.
2. Since drop in WAW's PMA leads to drop in LBS's PMA and vice-versa detachment is critical.
3. Validate to raise WAW's PMA and GAL to raise LBS's.
We have seen each other several times already and she has not given me the W2 yet. What gives?