Spot on.

I suspect we will recognize many of these patterns in ourself; I know I did.

I know I became complacent and was not actively engaged in life and as a result, the marriage.

And I was WAY too late in realizing it and then as you point out, the WAS has no interest in trying to revive the M, because they do believe anything can change.

Regardless of the future, I know I have taken a long look at myself and know I have a long way to go toward finding my purpose and myself, but I understand much more about myself and the dynamic of an R than I did.

Heck of a way to learn.