Thanks for your insights. Thought I'd address some good points that you brought out: " Here's a thought, since she was having the PMA inducing shopping fix last week; she may be looking out for your credit right now." - we already have separate bank accounts (for the past year). She makes more money than I do so I dont think she is in money trouble.
"but in the goal to find the illusive happiness, she may still go through w/it." -Yes, I think this is her strategy. She seems to think this will fix all her problems.
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The 3 laws of DBing:
1. PMA is critical to DBing.
2. Since drop in WAW's PMA leads to drop in LBS's PMA and vice-versa detachment is critical.
3. Validate to raise WAW's PMA and GAL to raise LBS's.