I have been thinking about this mortgage thing and have decided to not act on it one way or another until next week. I am inclining toward proceeding to relieve W of her name on the mortgage. I dont want to apply any pressure on her anymore. She can do what she wants. Right now she is so focused on getting a D that she cant think of anything else, much less about an R with me. My holding on to this mortgage thing is only going to slow the process of her getting some relief from this miserable bind that she is in.
On Independendce day (May 22, 2005) My W had said that the arrangement should be that I should have the house and everything in it and all our past savings etc. (IRAs and everything) upon D!!!! She does not want anything! Just a painless process where we sign off on a sheet of process and she is free as a bird. Talk about getting a completely no fault, uncontested, painless divorce. Hey, am I lucky or what?
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The 3 laws of DBing:
1. PMA is critical to DBing.
2. Since drop in WAW's PMA leads to drop in LBS's PMA and vice-versa detachment is critical.
3. Validate to raise WAW's PMA and GAL to raise LBS's.
