Thanks for your post. Quite helpful this morning. With some of this pre-D stuff it's hard to know what to do. In my opinion you can't really resist some stuff (separate bank accounts, etc) without giving the impression that you are waiting for your WAW to come back. That's probably as much pressure as just telling her..."I think we'll be back together". Some things that you do can be reversed later if everything works out between you. Just MHO
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