Quote: But I am still questioning if she just wants me to make it easy on her to get a D?
I still don't understand how refinancing in your name makes it any easier to get a D. The house will come into the equation regardless of the name on the mortgage. Having just your name doesn't make it all that much easier.
Not to be the pessimist, but I wouldn't refinance if you are going to put both your names on it because if you do end up getting divorced you'll just have to refinance again to get her name off. That doesn't make sense. If you aren't willing to just have your name on the mortgage then don't refinance. That's my 2 cents. I do think you need to look out for yourself here and refinancing in both your names is not practical.
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