I know that it would be naive to assume that she has banished thoughts of D. In fact it would be nothing short of miraculous if she did. I would in fact go all the way to say that I think she is slowly taking steps in that direction. But I also know she is confused about it. I dont think that most WAWs are perfectly comfortable with that decision although I may be wrong.
I told her on the telephone that I was just going to go ahead and refinance with both of us on it and then we can change over if "things change". I have until tomorrow to finalize the refinancing. I am meeting her tonight and will see what her position is after she has had all day to think about it.
Wes, I know what you mean by "it's only on paper" and all that. Apart from causing me just a day or so of grief about doing the paperwork and having her name off our first home together, the one in which our child was born, I think I will be okay with it. But I am still questioning if she just wants me to make it easy on her to get a D? Well, I know, I know, it's not like I can stop it from happening.....I am so confused
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The 3 laws of DBing:
1. PMA is critical to DBing.
2. Since drop in WAW's PMA leads to drop in LBS's PMA and vice-versa detachment is critical.
3. Validate to raise WAW's PMA and GAL to raise LBS's.
