I hope all of you had a great father's day! I am in a tight deadline situation and will be busy until Wednesday and so this will be a short post.
Had a good father's day. Went out to dinner with W and D3 and W gave me a card (signed only by D3) and a gift-cert to BestBuy (have been looking for a new digital camera to take pictures of D3). So it was okay. Physical space between W and I has shrunk so that accidental touching on every opportunity is now treated like a normal thing. W has recovered to a fairly cheerful state. I have been validating and supporting her and making eye-contact like crazy. have also mainatined my PMA and applied absolutely no pressure. And things are good. She is maintaining good eye-contact with me as well.
And this is one month to her saying she wants a D. And no sign that she is working on D papers!! W in fact appears to be treating me with more respect and (dare I say) affection than in the past two years?!! Will report in more detail once the deadline has passed. Best to you all.
UD
The 3 laws of DBing:
1. PMA is critical to DBing.
2. Since drop in WAW's PMA leads to drop in LBS's PMA and vice-versa detachment is critical.
3. Validate to raise WAW's PMA and GAL to raise LBS's.