You took a brief hiatus from the forum it seems. I hope your truck situation is resolved and that you are handling W's vacation well.
My W has been steadily dropping in spirits since her Declaration of Indpendence (on May 22). She has not called me at all. What's with that? I am keeping steady PMA, particularly in her presence. I am acting as if I am okay despite the impending shoe-drop. During dinners with W and D3 I am staying positive, cheerful, being a good listener etc. She has not metioned the D anymore after May 22. So I dont have any idea where she is with that. In any case, I am focussing on R with her and playing the D as unnecessary/annoying paperwork that I may have to deal with when the time comes. I am sure when the papers hit my desk I will have a loss of PMA but I am going to treat that as a transient and keep going.
At this point, while I am on high PMA my W seems to have slipped into withdrawal/depression stage of the six MLC stages.
UD
The 3 laws of DBing:
1. PMA is critical to DBing.
2. Since drop in WAW's PMA leads to drop in LBS's PMA and vice-versa detachment is critical.
3. Validate to raise WAW's PMA and GAL to raise LBS's.