Quote: I dont know what is worse, the wait in limbo-land or the D papers.
Both. You begin to convince yourself she is having second thoughts about the whole D process, then BAM, she drops papers on you when she has made no mention of it for months. It is impossible, but try to steel yourself. I cannot possibly explain it, but it feels like having your insides kicked out.
But right now, all the interactions seem positive and I'm beginning to decide (at least for other people), if the WAS intiates, why not accept. If they did not want to invite you for something, they would not ask.
But, and here is another impossible task, do not confuse their actions for anything more than they than are. Continue to have no expectations and to enjoy.