OK. No D papers yet. W announced intention to D on May 22. So three weeks have passed. Hmmmm....... I dont know what is worse, the wait in limbo-land or the D papers.
Weekend was fun. W and D3 and I did the usual Saturday routine (gymnastics class for D3, lunch, hangout at the mall, W bought D3 swim trunks for D3's swim classes starting this week). I made the schedule for when W and I would take D3 for her swim classes. This is a change for me, I would typically let W take care of those things.
Sunday- Ran 10 miles in the morning (first weekend run for marathon training). It was hot and humid, phew! Picked up D3 from W's place and took her to mall (usual routine with D3, she is going to be a mall rat, well actually we spend most of the time in the Barnes and Noble bookstore in the mall, so it's not too bad I guess). Bought D3 pool shoes and swim goggles ("doddles", D3 hasnt gotten the hard g's and k's yet). She wore it all over the mall and was entirely too funny skipping all over the place in it. She insists on wearing it in the bath now. Anywho, W arrived to pick D3 up. Asked me if I would like to go to dinner (Well, I guess this is becoming a regular thing again). I agreed to go. I know, I know, but she initiated. We had a good time. We then went and got D3 some ice cream and played in the playground with her before splitting. Not a bad time.
No major improvements in physical space issue. There was some accidental touching but I was acting as-if I was entirely oblivious to it. I think I am going to continue that. I want the physical space to shrink (one of my goals).
Baby steps, yes. But folks, there have been a gazillion baby steps in the past two years. But 0.5 gazillion steps with a positive sign and 0.5 gazillion with a negative sign. Zero sum game! But, hope springs eternal.
Hope all of you had a decent weekend.
UD
The 3 laws of DBing:
1. PMA is critical to DBing.
2. Since drop in WAW's PMA leads to drop in LBS's PMA and vice-versa detachment is critical.
3. Validate to raise WAW's PMA and GAL to raise LBS's.