Too much analyzing (look who's talking). Your wife doesn't feel well. Not the time to try to interpret whether she's withdrawing from you. Shake it off. I think considering how she felt that your offers were certainly not off base, nor do they represent hard core pursuit.
Let her consider the loving act and sympathy you showed her. Maybe when she's feeling better the offers will be appreciated.
Obviously I'm not the one to give you a cyber kick to the groin.
Let us know how it goes.
In the end, it's not the years in your life that count. It's the life in your years. Abraham Lincoln
It is hard to fail, but it is worse never to have tried to succeed. Theodore Roosevelt
