Crap, I applied pressure this morning. Went to pick up D3 to drop her off to daycare and W was really down. She said she threw up multiple times last night. I couldn't help but be extra-nice to her (There goes my Brad-Pitt-dont-give-a-[censored]-I-can-have-any-woman-I-want impersonation- poof!). Made her morning tea (which she accepted), offered to massage her forehead(used to do this in the good times a lot- my LL is AOS) which she politely declined (OK, guys please kick me in my groin for doing this). Told her "I hope she gets better through the day and call me if she needs help". All major pursuit events. Now I am just feeling like the Anti-Brad-Pitt and kicking myself. Did I totally mess up or what?
Anyway, W has been increasingly stressed out this week (contemplating D papers? or maybe work related? who knows?). And the "accidental touching" has stopped. She has begun to recoil when I get closer. Funny, last week she had high PMA and was initiating accidental touch. This week, she is down and recoiling from it. Also, D3 has been difficult this week. She moved up from the 2-year-old section to 3-year-old section at daycare and this may be causing her to be a little more aggressive and she has been pushing the envelope. I have had to get upset with her and threaten time-outs to get her to mind. This actually wears my PMA down. I hate being nasty with my D3. So maybe all of that is getting W's PMA way down and mine has been a bit of a challenge to hold up as well.
Well, no papers yet, we'll see how this thing goes. One and all, I will humbly accept cyber-kicks across the ether to my groin. Thanks for the same.
UD
The 3 laws of DBing:
1. PMA is critical to DBing.
2. Since drop in WAW's PMA leads to drop in LBS's PMA and vice-versa detachment is critical.
3. Validate to raise WAW's PMA and GAL to raise LBS's.
