Agree with you on several counts (my wife is sweet, yes and there is not much animosity, no, but damn, she still doesnt want an R). Thanks for the kick in the pants. My language tends to be "encumbered" when I am feeling awkward about things. I guess I should go light. I actually replied to her email and I was light. So, anyway, you are right, I should lighten up. And, yes, I should let he break all strings and let her go. No pressure....No pressure....
Thanks for your input, Wes.
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The 3 laws of DBing:
1. PMA is critical to DBing.
2. Since drop in WAW's PMA leads to drop in LBS's PMA and vice-versa detachment is critical.
3. Validate to raise WAW's PMA and GAL to raise LBS's.