Yes, the key is to remain without any expectations while still encouraging W to move into a comfort zone with me. It has taken almost two years for the touching thing to become possible. I am trying to be nonchalant and natural about it so that in time it will become something that is not an issue anymore and maybe things will go up to the next level. I have realized that Deida's thinking, which is to remain present in the moment and to enjoy it for what it is and not to worry about the past or the future is that best (only) way to stay sane in this business of DBing. Of course, I have slipped up many many times in the past and will probably do so on occasion in the future but I am doing my best to maintain constant PMA and awareness and accept things the way they are, even enjoy it. Well, let us see where my experiment of using PMA as a weapon leads.....You will be informed in due course.....
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The 3 laws of DBing:
1. PMA is critical to DBing.
2. Since drop in WAW's PMA leads to drop in LBS's PMA and vice-versa detachment is critical.
3. Validate to raise WAW's PMA and GAL to raise LBS's.
