Cool! You're reading Deida! Which books have you tackled so far? Intriguing isn't it? His writing was a true lifeline for me regarding understanding my masculinity and finding a balanced way to be with W. I had an interesting event in my sitch that I'm posting about regarding this.
A Prius, huh? I'll be looking for hybrid in the next year or two - hoping for a greater variety of hybrid SUV options soon.
Has she started to soften a bit in terms of seeing you more complexly (not all bad/evil)? If not, know that this turn WILL likely happen in the next 2-3 mo if you stay consistent with DBing.
This theme of independent, goal-oriented action is a big one. How might it be enhanced in each of your main areas of function (career, physical health, household, social...)?