Update: I have been keeping up my PMA and the sun doth shine through the orifice. I have noticed that since the declaration of divorce last week she has been quite low. I am going to keep at a level of upbeatness higher than her at all times (Deida). It seems to be the only thing that makes her feel less power over me. When she feels moe power she seems to want to say things that elicit pursuit-type responses from me. This makes me lose my PMA. So, from here on out it is a battle of wits to keep my PMA up. I have stopped all pursuit behaviors. In fact, I am moving in the opposite direction, i.e. making my own plans. I am in the market for a new car (eyeing a Prius) so am going to go out an shop for one. One of things that my W said while setting this slide in motion in '03 was that I was not independent (probably true, for years I had depended on her for too many things), apart from of course attributing features to me that put me slightly below Lucifer in desirability. So, as part of my self-improvement program I am going to take that to heart and act on it.
Take care all, I am waiting for the shoe to drop and be served D papers. I hope it comes with fries
UD
The 3 laws of DBing:
1. PMA is critical to DBing.
2. Since drop in WAW's PMA leads to drop in LBS's PMA and vice-versa detachment is critical.
3. Validate to raise WAW's PMA and GAL to raise LBS's.
