Great...... He is showing signs of being worried that you will replace him. In my opinion I think that is good. Because this is a last resort technique. So he should get the feelings of whsat it will be like without you. Don't let him think you will only be home. Right now you don't have to offer him any explanation JV. Just tell him you don't really know your just playing it by ear.

Yeah he is trying to be clingy because he don't like it now that he is out. He is seeing he doesn't have that convenience anymore. To a wife always there just putting up with his crap. A wife that just takes his affection when he gives it. He has comfort and a bed and his clothes washed. But he can come and go as he wants and doesn't have to give anything of himself. He wants that back. He wants his comfort. Well, to bad for him. Because I really don't think in 2 days he has changed. Expecially when he is already being controlling and trying to weasel his way back in with kisses and I love you's.

JV as hard as it is I don't think you should be having that kind of contact with him right now. I can see it and he is playing you right now. He knows he has destroyed your ego and everything else. So he thinks you will jump at his affection. Distance yourself or I don't think things will ever change.