JV....sorry you had to go through another episode like that. I am sorry but your husband sounds like he can be selfish jerk. He has the gall to complain about 900.00 on his childrens dental health. But yet then asks about the 5,000 he is going to blow gambling!

Then he has the gall to tell you should have aborted your baby. How can he even think like that.

JV think back you askled him for a compromise with the gambling. He is back yet again and blowing that compromise right out the window and on top of it is drinking. You need to stand up for yourself more JV. It appears like you allow him to walk all over you when you don't state your real feelings to him. Why don't you lay it on the line what you need in him. But also ask him what he needs from you to be happy.

I don't know JV. He sounds so troubled and just plain selfish. How do you even work on something he keeps telling you he don't want. But then on the other hand he confuses the heck out of you because when he is gone he tells you otherwise.

Sheesh I can see why you are so confused.

Why don't you try to take a vacation from him and give him something to think about. Like could you take the boysand just go away for a week?? Hmmmm I am just trying to think if there was some way you could give him a wake up call about what he will be missing.