JV.......I think you very supportive during that conversation. Great job!!

That is a very big positive that he opens up to you. Communication is a great skill in a man.


I know you have a lot to think about and turmoil and all that with him having to find a new job. But maybe the best way to find out why he strayed is to ask him. That would give you a good foundation to build on in what he felt he was missing. Maybe with the depression, bulimia, and the emotional childhood he had it is such a burden on his heart. I still think he needs counseling. But maybe he is someone who says needs constant reassurance and compliments.

Maybe when he gets home if it is late tonight you could have the kid's in bed and greet him at the door in lingerie. Create some sparks again. Maybe have some candles lit in the bedroom or around the living room. Let him know you want to make him feel better.