Hi JV - What an eventful weekend. I'm glad your mom is there for you, and yes, there are some hugs only a mom can give. It must seem like there are so many missing links still with H, but as you posted a few days ago, there are also many, and a growing number, of positives. The lies, evasions and inconsistencies used to drive me batty, until I learnt to interpret them as 'he cares enough to know the truth will be hurtful' - not easy, but sometimes that sort of rationalization works. Oh, and thought stopping, which you seem to be doing very well - let it roll
