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Focus on what's good and what's right and try to let the rest go, if only for a day.



Thank you, heather. I really needed that little push to get me going in the positive direction again .

I've been so down in the dumps lately , and since I am feeling better now , I just realized that I've almost been completely ignoring the BIGGEST positive in my sitch -- H is still at home! He also reassures me he loves me by saying so, AND although he is very stressed about his job, he is looking to ME (and no one else anymore) for comfort.

I also need to get back to listing my positives, negatives (yuck!), and things to work on. I don't know why I stopped! I must have been crazy because I knew doing that was really helping me a lot. Sheesh -- get with it, JV !

If anyone notices me getting in a negative swing like that again, please grab the 2x4 and whack away ! Tell me to get my a** off this computer, stop moping, and go do something constructive !


Anyway, H called about an hour ago and told me more about all the crap that was going on with (boss), certain employees, and the business. It looks like this may be the last week or two that H will be working for him. (boss) said he's just not making enough $$$ to keep this business going so he's most likely calling it quits. H will be in AZ for about another week to do the approved installs then he's coming home.

H said to me, "ILY, JV, and I'm really sorry." I told H not to be sorry because he didn't do anything wrong. I repeated what I told him earlier. I told H that even though it may not seem like it now, this might actually be a good thing. This could be his opportunity for something much better. I told H to just stick it out for the week, get everything that's coming to him ($$$), and after that, he will never have to deal with their BS again. H said alright. I think I managed to boost his spirit up a bit .

I love my H, and what happened in the past is just that -- the past. It is well passed the time to move on. He is HOME with ME, and I wouldn't have it any other way.

Thanks for listening.

JV

"I can't change the direction of the wind, but I can adjust my sails to always reach my destination."

Valerie

"I can't change the direction of the wind, but I can adjust my sails to always reach my destination." ~ author unknown

"Piecing is not for the faint of heart." ~ sage