Hi! I think I am somewhat in a similar sitch. H said that he broke off with OW on the 28/5/05. And is kinda self-pitying for his loss. OW works in the same company, so they do still see each other. H is trying to get another job in a foreign country to be alone for awhile....
I think you have some positives in your sitch. And I think you should hang in there and see how things goes...