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H said, "You left? Whatever," then hung up on me...


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"Whatever! I don't give a f***!", and he hung up on me again...


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H said, "I don't have a problem, and I don't give a f*** about what you do tonight. Do whatever you want like you have been for the past 11 years."




JV,

"Was I being an a**hole? YA THINK!!!!!!!

That had to be the STUPIDEST question anyone has ever uttered!! I give you all the credit in the world for keeping it together. I've read a lot of posts on your thread from other people giving advice and opinions and I've kept quiet...until now. Your H worries me and I'm 400 miles away. I don't know how to diagnose but in my opinion, this guy needs pshycological help. I don't know how you're going to get him to go but he's got to go. I think over the last few months, you've put up with a lot of sh** and that's commendable, but I've said it before and I'll say it again...

PLEASE BE CAREFUL!!!

If anyone out there thinks I'm over-reacting, I'm sorry but that's just my take. Take care JV...

DMF