JV....Instead od worrying which will drive you crazy...could you contact this person who gave it to him and tell him how thoughtful it was. Or say something like husband liked the shirt so you were wondering where he got it. Or maybe take a trip to the GAP by you and see if they sell that shirt??

JV Or I would ask him about this. Holding it in and worrying will only make it worse. He did stray so should at least expect that you may question him from time to time. I mean how would he act if you did this to him?

I hope you get the answers you deserve?

Have you thought about if you do find out his affair is still on going? Would you be able to stay with him still? Is it best not knowing or do feel you want to know.

I am terrible about knowing. For me personally I wouldn't want to be in the dark. My ex husband cheated on me which is the reason we divorced. Well, there was other reasons to. But him cheating was at the top of the list. Men can be very good liars.