Good for you, for working it out, Crushed. I still have bad days too, but I try and get over them as quickly as possible. I think our H's are clever enough that they realise that there will be those days, and one can only hope that they are there for us, as your H was.
Me:57 H:52 M:28 Got another lawyer last year and filed. D35,S/D twins28,D22 EA4/04 End? Who knows? "Life is like a mirror. Smile at it and it smiles back at you." — Peace Pilgrim