Well...I guess I got what I wanted! On Tuesday my H showed up at the door with flowers....it was so sweet! He even took a later bus home to be able to grab them. He wanted to greet me with those at the door and since it was my day off I was there to receive them just as he wanted to. We are having month packed with "together" activities - parties, concerts etc. Reading my first post on this thread I feel silly for reacting so strongly - everyone has bad days, it's just a matter how we handle them. I did not do a good job but my H and I were able to work through it and that shows how much we grew through it all.....