Sage,

I sort of hinted to him that I wanted something just for me he replied to it that I'm "keeping score". I'm going to drop the issue for now, once the anniversary comes I'll see if he came up with anything else. If there is nothing else I'll just let it go and try not to be resentful. I'm having much better time with expressing my feelings - I don't plan to keep them inside and let them steam. He seems to understand and appreciate it. Our communication skills definitelly improved but listening is one thing and hearing is another. I don't think he hears me yet....