What do you think would happen if you said "I love that you're planning an outing for our anniversary celebration. I'd also like a gift that's just from you to me. Would you get me one?"
It's sort of dangerous ground, though. OTOH, it's good to be clear about stuff that you're going to resent if it doesn't happen...OTOH, that kind of communication often sounds like "You're doing this all wrong" to the other party which would be, well, bad.
Can you let go of the disappointment? If so, I'd err on the side of saying nothing right now.
Sage
Relax. Appreciate. Be calm. Laugh. Enjoy. Be secure. Be loving. Be loved. Don't personalize. Don't ASSume. Accept. Be grateful.
