Sage,

I started on the book and got half way through it before the reconciliation happened. I must admit I rested on my glory when it comes to that. I'm picking it up again soon.
As to getting my PMA up, well, I booked an appt for 5 hr spa treatment this coming Friday- funny thing is that it's a gift certificate from my H that I got for X-mas when he was chasing the OW. Yup, everything comes full circle....

You're right that I should be happy abour H spending time with me but it's not really his LL. It' more of the - I don't want to think about it, she mentioned it and therefore it's a sure hit. His LL seems to be WOA and I've been doing it until I"m blue in the face....