Crushed,

Sorry you're having a bad day Sounds like lots of things conspiring to piss you off!

As for the anniversary gift...I hear you on wanting something just for you but sounds like QT is a LL of h's and he's eager to spend time with you? THAT sounds not .

Have you read "Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus"? (I ask everyone that about a thousand times! Sorry if I've already asked you!). If not, definitely do it. If you have, remember what it says in there about showing appreciation? Offering liberal thanks for the stuff my h does around the house seems to breed more!

Hang in there and how are you going to get the PMA up?

Sage

Relax. Appreciate. Be calm. Laugh. Enjoy. Be secure. Be loving. Be loved. Don't personalize. Don't ASSume. Accept. Be grateful.