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No kidding you made 7344 mad. She left the board forever thanks to you


Guess I did give her the cure all?


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I still argue that you can't fall in love without being together. Have the interactions, etc, up to this point made it possible for her to suddenly chase me if I back way off?


I do not disagree at all. But are you comfortable in this role? Is this so comfortable to X, she sees no need or desire to push to the next levels?

Right now, your behavior and hers is not altering the dynamic. If you are comfortable with this, that is one thing. But what would a change in behavior do to the current R. And I see you've experimented some, by not calling all the time. And it appears you've reached a point where you are not so worried about actions or reactions.

But you have to ask yourself, if this is what you want to continue and why? And what are the alternatives and why you may or may not seek another path?