I believe and of course I only read from your completely unbiased perspective, your XW is content in the current R. She enjoys spending time with you and family and accepting and initating contact. The part about wanting to spend time with you and her parents I confess I completely do not understand. And in reading through past posts, I see many instances where you communicate "several" times a day. I did not even talk to XW "several" times a day when we were M.
She clearly enjoys the time with you without the pressures of M or children issues or all the other issues present in marriage.
Will this behavior extend into a more intimate R? I have no idea.
If you were viewing this as an outsider and this were the intial stages of a romance, all signs would point to the deeper developing of the R. But at this juncture, I do not foresee this.
Perhaps it is time for the "do something different" approach. I do not know what it might be. But I suspect she believes you will consistently be available to her and the current status of the relationship.
As Michelle says, "Insanity is doing the same thing and expecting different results."
