There is a lot of projection going on. My WAW insisted that one of the reasons why she wanted out was because "you are an unhappy person and when I am around you I am unhappy". Hmmm...she is the only person that has called me an unhappy person. None of my friends or anyone else seems to think so. Your W may be saying you are angry or upset because she feels a lot of guilt and assumes that you must be angry or upset with her. Dont' defend yourself. Just let it pass with a "hmmm" or "I am sorry you feel that way".
UD
The 3 laws of DBing:
1. PMA is critical to DBing.
2. Since drop in WAW's PMA leads to drop in LBS's PMA and vice-versa detachment is critical.
3. Validate to raise WAW's PMA and GAL to raise LBS's.
Hmmm...she is the only person that has called me an unhappy person. None of my friends or anyone else seems to think so. Your W may be saying you are angry or upset because she feels a lot of guilt and assumes that you must be angry or upset with her. Dont' defend yourself. Just let it pass with a "hmmm" or "I am sorry you feel that way".
