Quote: Is she still coming and going in the house?
Very rarely. I haven't really said..."don't come over if I'm not there". I thought about whether or not to establish that boundary, but I do just leave the door unlocked for workers or I let her parents come walk the dog or whatever as they please also. It would be a sudden change if I developed a closed door policy with her. On the other hand I do have a closed door policy with my first wife so why not with this one? I imagine that will develop over time if we are never together again. She used to just come in. At least now she knocks. I guess it is really not something I care much about. Although when I find someone else it will be a much bigger deal.
In the end, it's not the years in your life that count. It's the life in your years. Abraham Lincoln
It is hard to fail, but it is worse never to have tried to succeed. Theodore Roosevelt
