I have a small question. Probably 3-4 times in the last month the opportunity has arisen where my ex will say something along the lines of "that's because you love me" or "because you have a crush on me". It's not during a R talk. We have very few of those. It's if I compliment her on something and she says "that's not true". The way I have answered so far has been to confirm that I do love her (although that's not the reason I say you are "hot"). Though last time I said..."I don't even like you". Any suggestions? Does she want me to still be in love with her? And confirm it? What would you answer?

UPDATE:
She just called while I was typing. Asked if the cat was in the house. She went to walk the dog and didn't see the cat. We had a pleasant talk, although I find I can't shut up and just listen. Oh well. The silence was broken. We went in together on her dad's b-day present so we'll give it together tomorrow.

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