Not a weenie . . . just in love or infatuation or something. You are deathly afraid, as I have said, if you lose contact, you lose. You lose her, hope, the R, the idea, the future, the past, everything.
You have to separate not having contact and not having an R or a life.
Is it Dobson who talks about letting go? Letting go of the fear? This is what I feel (with NO pyschological training) you need to do. Let go of the fear.
As I read, "Live with the fear or dance with her."
