Reread that letter again, though should not be doing that.
She's not talking about the other woman's marriage, she is talking about yours.
Maybe you have reached the point Michelle talks about, when it is time to move on and be "realistic." We all go through these stages and I've learned, they vary sometimes daily. But only one person knows in their heart, when it is time.
But it certainly seems it is time for deep self-evaluation.
Whatever you do, know you have support and let us know what is going on?
