I wanted to reply to your last post and then I read Bruce's reply and I think he said it all, so I will shut up.
One things I do want to pick up on in your post: " I hope I'm not learning that it takes three years to get back together. I guess patience without pressure is probably what I should learn. " - Truth is, it VERY WELL might!! Get your mind around it. You cannot sustain your level of "internal jumpiness" for that long if it does take that long. One must let go on short-term gain and focus on long-term self-improvement.
Brother, been there done that on the "internal jumpiness" thing for the past two years. I am only now getting more Zen about things. Believe me, it is extremely hard but absolutely necessary.
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The 3 laws of DBing:
1. PMA is critical to DBing.
2. Since drop in WAW's PMA leads to drop in LBS's PMA and vice-versa detachment is critical.
3. Validate to raise WAW's PMA and GAL to raise LBS's.
