Who the hell wrote that? Not Wes. The thing was fraught with ASSumptions.
One. You have NO IDEA what she is thinking. You know this, so quit.
Two. It took YEARS for the M and R to fall apart, it may take YEARS to restore it, IF this is what you want.
Go back and reread your posts. At first you were hesistant to accept any offer she made, questioning everything, especially yourself. Then, somewhere in there, you said Ok Wes, let's get to work. And started intiating conversations, activities and accepting her invites. There was confidence in your behavior.
Then for some reason (imagined or real) you've shut Wes down. You've decided (without any evidence or your own psychic hotline) what she is feeling and thinking. And you are comparing your situation to someone else.
She has bad days just like you, related to many factors most likely having NOTHING to do with you. Talk about her ego will you?
Now, straighten up, go to back to Wes and his core and live life like you want, not like you think she wants you to or me or someone else or her kids or the mailman or Mr. Rogers and any other person who is NOT you.
