I want to reply to your email in some detail but I am short on time. I like your goals. That is exactly what you need to do and really focus on. Now, the fact that your W comes over and feels comfortable around you is the part that is working for you!! Why change that? I know it pains you that you are not getting the other 50% but why give up the 50% that you already have?
See, it is time for unconditional love here. It is also time to work on yourself and keep on improving yourself. o stick with your goals. If you succeed in them and are sincere then your W will notice and then the other 50% will start to work itself out. But you need to get moving on your own! More later.
Bruce, what do you think?
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The 3 laws of DBing:
1. PMA is critical to DBing.
2. Since drop in WAW's PMA leads to drop in LBS's PMA and vice-versa detachment is critical.
3. Validate to raise WAW's PMA and GAL to raise LBS's.
