Glad to have you back. We haven't had anybody to amuse us.
I will not even go into the MANY mistakes and setbacks you committed.
I feel an urgency when I read your posts. And I don't know if you are too close to the situation to see yourself. But you want something to happen and happen NOW. And then something does happen, but not the something you by miracle hoped would happen. Then you continue to run circles trying to fix it.
This was supposed to be a time for you to spend with the kids, not CHASING W.
I suspect she would have been around when you returned and you both could have used some of the time NOT in constant communication to really think some things through.
SLOW DOWN. Clearly she wants to be around you, ENJOY, and quit pushing. Think of her as someone new you are interested in. How would your behavior be interpreted?