We did miss you around here. I am glad you and kids had a good time with the (iron and steel) rollercoaster at least . I think you realized already that you were crowding your W and so I will keep my 2x4 to myself because I am sure I will need it to whack you with soon. I am sure that W's son will report to her that he had a good time etc. and hopefully you would have scored a point in the area that really matters for you IMHO. I.e. the melded family issue. I am not sure if you have revisited or firmed up any goals in that regard, i.e. how you are going to show your W that you are working on blending your two families together. How about putting this together and focusing on this for the next three months?
Give your W space. You already know all of this DB101 stuff. And anyway since you are already feeling bad about the physical stuff, put that in the "OK, I messed up, I am just human" category and start with a beginner's mind.
UD
The 3 laws of DBing:
1. PMA is critical to DBing.
2. Since drop in WAW's PMA leads to drop in LBS's PMA and vice-versa detachment is critical.
3. Validate to raise WAW's PMA and GAL to raise LBS's.
. I think you realized already that you were crowding your W and so I will keep my 2x4 to myself because I am sure I will need it to whack you with soon. I am sure that W's son will report to her that he had a good time etc. and hopefully you would have scored a point in the area that really matters for you IMHO. I.e. the melded family issue. I am not sure if you have revisited or firmed up any goals in that regard, i.e. how you are going to show your W that you are working on blending your two families together. How about putting this together and focusing on this for the next three months?
And anyway since you are already feeling bad about the physical stuff, put that in the "OK, I messed up, I am just human" category and start with a beginner's mind.
