That's even better then.

She's looking for excuses to see you. If I asked to go over and mow my H's lawn now, he'd think I was MAD.
That's something you do when you're a couple.

So she comes over to 'help' you out, then goes in your BEDROOM to lie down with you in your UNDERWEAR and oh my dear, she suddenly comes over with a headache, so dearie me, you have to massage her

I don't buy that for one minute.

I am a woman and I can tell you, if that was me I would have planned that on purpose to try and get you to sleep with me. I think she wanted you to. I have faked headaches in the past because H used to sleep with me to make my headache go away (it worked).

The fact that she's confident enough to go in to your house, lie in your bed, let you touch her and watch you with virtually nothing on, says it all, man

Just make sure she commits properly before you make any serious plans, as she sounds similar to my H about being commitment-shy.

Jo.