Jo,

You break it down quite nicely and succinctly and in a very positive way. Thank you.

The only clarification....I was in my own bed half naked. She was over at my place mowing the lawn and then laid down with me on my bed. And God I hope she was frustrated and needing willpower.

In the end, it's not the years in your life that count. It's the life in your years.
Abraham Lincoln

It is hard to fail, but it is worse never to have tried to succeed.
Theodore Roosevelt