Bruce is right on target here. I have the same sort of "WTF" moment when I am a little off-PMA and my W picks up on it (and boy, do they have sensitive sensors for PMA) and goes "what's wrong". It really actually makes my PMA go through the floor when she does that.
From experience anniversaries are extremely hard. Birthdays and other occasions are hard as well but the hardest are anniversaries and Christmas. I am really dreading this year's.
Let the weirdness of the past few days die down and you will bounce back to your normal (?) interactions with your W.
UD
The 3 laws of DBing:
1. PMA is critical to DBing.
2. Since drop in WAW's PMA leads to drop in LBS's PMA and vice-versa detachment is critical.
3. Validate to raise WAW's PMA and GAL to raise LBS's.