Good Morning,

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She picked up on it and asked what was wrong.


Isn't this amazing? Here, they quit, leave the marriage, for some time don't want to talk about it or us or anything. But the minute we are out of sorts and don't want to talk or act overfriendly, they get upset, want to know what's wrong, why are we mad, etc? Personally drives me crazy.

XW does this is if I don't talk to her for a couple of days, saying something like, "Are you ignoring me on purpose?" or "Are you mad about something?"

What do you imagine she would have done if you had called her at 430 in the morning? I suspect she would have been less than pleased.

It's funny how as long as we follow their rules, it's ok, but when we want time alone, to sort through things, or contemplate or just forget about stuff, it makes them angry.

Hope it is a better, albeit a sleep deprived day.

Hang in.