Thank you so much...I feel like I've been given license to pursue. At least in moderation. I might be swinging back and forth philosophically in regards to interacting with my wife, but action wise I think I've stayed pretty constant with "do what works". I did see her this morning...yes and we hugged and she put her hands on my chest to "feel my breasts". I dressed up for the occasion this am. Made sure I smelled good. Venusians out there....any cologne you recommend? Or should I do the pheromones as UD suggests?
Anyway, this quote from UD made my day...
Quote: Deida view of when your W says ..."let's be friends", she is leaving out "for now" at the end of that.
I'm going to mentally complete that if it comes up again, but my goal here is to avoid getting to the point where she has to say anything. I want her to just be happy in the moment with me without having to think at all.
In the end, it's not the years in your life that count. It's the life in your years. Abraham Lincoln
It is hard to fail, but it is worse never to have tried to succeed. Theodore Roosevelt